PEARL NECKLACE AND INDIVIDUATION

Small things helps me hang on at the moment. Beauty in small details, moments. A tea with herbs from the garden, an embrace from my kid, an art piece from an artist friend of a friend. Step after step. I feel sick but I am not. I have fever from the apathy of the humanity in face of its own destruction.
Pain in the back and the legs, like if melancholy rolls itself around my bones and muscles. Muzzles everything to silence and stillness. A scream that can’t go out. Hard to move, hard to do. Need to move, need to do. And though nothing. 

I don’t create, unless it is food. Cakes and farmer dishes. Sometimes in a manic way, like a lot.
I don’t create, I feel stuck. But I am in observation, in absorption. I see as I write those lines the pattern gets visible. The pattern of having to surrender to the painful unknown of what is happening to me. And it is unpleasant. It makes me anxious, my body is weird and low, I imagine hundreds of diseases I could have. But the worse is to have this intrusive thought that I will drop dead and my kids will have no mother in this fucked up world. This one I know it well, it comes and goes since forever. This state is a combination of my own background story, physical and emotional. Young years of trying to be the reasonable and a good girl, an abusive relationship, burnouts, pregnancies, expatriation (plural), family baggages, daily struggles ( the ones we all know very well).
We all have that “thing” that we work through in life. Often starting around the end of our 20s.  Some kind of individuation process according to Jung. 

Individuation is the central theme of Jungian psychology. Within this process, an individual goes from being a fragmented piece to a unique whole. Jung believed that we are all fragmented and divided -and knowingly or not- we're all searching for our souls.
This "inward turn" initiates the individuation process. If we don't do this work consciously, life finds a way to force it on us. That's the thing about the psyche: what we repress doesn't go away. It shows up in other forms- anxiety, depression, conflict, projection. It spills into our marriages, friendships, and even random encounters, like a road rage moment that feels, afterward, absurdly out of proportion but also somehow inevitable. Jung also spoke of the collective unconscious : the idea that we're not only grappling with our own personal shadows, but also the tensions of the culture and time we live in. It's no wonder, then, that so many of us feel like we're vibrating with barely suppressed frustration, fear, sadness. We carry personal and collective burdens, and unless we bring them into the light of consciousness-through reflection, dialogue, creativity— they erupt in ways that feel uncontrollable and bewildering. *

So maybe I am since several month in an individuation phase that hits a bit harder than my past ones. No wonder with the collective full blow up right now. 
But for my creative process, does it have to be that way in order for me to work through my next phase? Is that one particularly so painful because the subjects and content it holds is unbearable. Bodies reduced to flesh and dust by greed and lust for power. Suffering beyond suffering. And the worst, the apathy of our kind. As I only can work from what I experience and feel deep within, I am bound to start a conversation with the public from the truth, my truth, our collective truth. And right now and until forever it will include collective liberation. But how creatively will that unfold? I have done things and will continue but right now this plateau is not as easy to navigate as I thought.

There is no direct fast solution to unlock the frustration and stillness I am in right now, just tiny steps, patience and understanding from my close ones, artworks and mindful creativity from others. Words and music. 
This art jewellery is from an artist I follow called Sina Suai from the collective Moder Skavet. It is made with Japanese glass pearls. It really helped me the pas days. Art is just a door to what you need. You don’t need to try to hard, you just know. 
Sharing also this beautiful album from Adrianne Leker " Bright Future". A perfect balance of poetry and rawness. 

* Sourced from different websites and books about Carl Jung psychology work. 

STINA SUAI JEWELLRY ART